How to control you Sex Emotion

How to Control Your Sex Emotion and Why You Need to Be In Control of It

The Sex Emotion

For you to be in total control in your relationship with ANY woman, you must be in control of two vital emotions of yours.

The two emotions are:

1) Love emotion and 2) Sex emotion.

Once you’re in control of these two emotions, you’ll never loose guard around any woman again.

Pay attention to the life of any man who got destroyed by women and you’ll see he allowed either the emotion of love or sex to control him. Now, I won’t be talking about controlling the love emotion today, instead we’ll be discussing about controlling the sex emotion.


The Sex Emotion: The Strongest Emotion

The sex emotion/sexual urge/conji is the strongest emotion known to humans. It has pushed a lot of people into doing stupid and irrational things they regret later. Therefore, to be a truly powerful man in life, you must learn how to control your sexual urge.

Now, don’t misunderstand me. When I talk about sexual control, I don’t mean abstaining from sex or not having sexual thoughts. No, that one is called repressing your sexual urge—which I won’t even advise you to do. But what do I know?

When I say you should control your sex emotion, I mean that:

  • You shouldn’t say or do stupid/illogical things for women just because you want to have sex with them.
  • You should be able to turn yourself on and off whenever you wish to.
  • If you decide not to have sex for a particular period, you’re in control of your sex emotion when you can follow the decision through–no matter the temptation.
  • You’re able to transmute your sexual energy into other creative forms through sexual transmutation.


This means that a guy is not in control of his sex emotion, if he starts begging or kneeling down for a girl just because she refused to have sex with him. The guy might even go to the extent of begging her just to allow him to put IT once, even if it’s just the tip. If the guy was in control of his sex emotion, he could have let her go once she made it absolutely clear that she wasn’t going to have sex with him that day.


Girls Will Always Test You With Sex

Due to the biological instinct of men to spread their genes to quality females, men are naturally the gender who push for sexual intimacy more. And due to how most men act when it comes to sex, women now believe that men cannot do without sex. That we’re usually senseless when it comes to sex.

Hence, they perceive sex as our weakness.

This is the reason that the most common punishment women give men is starving us of sex. And they also use it to try and get something from us. So most girls you meet out there will test you to know how weak you’re when it comes to sex.

A lady might make out with you and when she sees you’re all turned on, she’ll intentionally refuse to have sex with you just to observe your reaction.

Now, if you start begging and tell her that if you don’t do it, you’ll have a serious injury in your balls and other lies men tell just to get some pussy…she’ll know that she can use sex to control you and would definitely use it against you in the future.


Sex emotion: How to control it

On the other hand…

When you persisted and persisted and you realized it was no longer ‘try harder’

She truly doesn’t want to have sex with you that day…

And instead of begging or supplicating. You just let her go and turned yourself off. Then acted all mature about it and said something like:

“Okay, I guess you’re not feeling the same way as I am. It’s all good Hun. Let’s do something else then.”

Then you acted all cool and normal like nothing just happened.


What effect do you think that your reaction would likely have on her?

I’ll tell you.

First of all, the girl will have mad respect for you because you’ve done what most men she has met before had never done. Secondly, she’ll know she can’t use sex against you in the future. Because clearly, that’s not your weak point.

And next time you make a move on her again, you’ll face lesser resistance. But if she keeps on resisting you and you don’t do a no-sex relationship like me, you next her.


How to Control Your Sex Emotion

Most men sincerely believe that they cannot control their sex emotion. But that’s not true, you can—if you want to and DECIDE to. However, it is not easy, it’ll take you a whole lot of self-discipline and willpower. But the rewards of controlling your sexual urge is huge.


The main thing in controlling your sex emotion is the ability to change your sexual thoughts to a non-sexual one.


When you’re horny or in the mood, you’re definitely thinking about having sex. So if you wish to turn yourself off, you need to shift your thought from having sex with that girl in front of you to a completely non-sexual stuff. Maybe a new project or work you’re working on or how good/bad your football club performed the last time they played.

Once you’ve successfully willed yourself to change your thoughts, you’ll see yourself automatically turned off. It will also help if you keep reminding yourself that you won’t die, if you don’t have sex at that moment.



Being able to control your sex emotion is a sure great power to have especially in your dealings with ladies. So intentionally try to be in control of it. Never allow it to overwhelm you into doing stupid and irrational things you would regret later.


Stay Wise and Disciplined,


About the Author: Gerald Dike

Gerald Dike is the founder of Relationship Strategies For Men. He has helped thousands of men have better interactions and healthy relationships with women of their dreams. He is also an entrepreneur in one of the biggest countries in Africa.

You can grab his new Book here==> The Attractive Man: How to Become the Man Who Women Desire And Chase

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