Why I Don’t Date Feminists
I’ve noticed that some guys are usually scared of ladies who identify as feminists. Bro, you shouldn’t be afraid of any woman—no matter her social class, attitude or beauty.
Don’t place any woman on pedestal. You’re a man.
That one aside….
….if you know me well, you know I’m not a feminist (not even close) and I do shake their tables regularly.
However, I do mingle with a lot of them. As a matter of fact, 80% of my female friends right now are hardcore feminists.
Feminists Are Fun
Personally, I enjoy having feminists around because they’re so much fun.
Whenever I hangout with my feminists friends; they usually offer to foot the bills or they insist we split the bill (when I try to pay). So, they’re highly economical as friends.
Also, feminists are one of the most sexually liberated group of females I know. So, most of them have embraced their sexuality and no longer see sex as a big deal. Hence, feminists are quite easier to frame into having casual relationship with you. You know; the friends with benefits (FWB) and short flings.
You literally don’t have to pretend at all that you want a committed relationship with most feminists before they agree to f-ck you brains out.
If they like you; they would be open to sex with you. And afterwards, they won’t feel like you’ve ‘taken’ anything from them—unlike most girls.
Because they view sex as a normal thing adults do, and not what a girl gives a man.
In fact, a lot of feminists intentionally seek out “fuck-buddies”
That’s what they call it. I think they’re intentionally trying to compete with the promiscuity of men.
But whatever it is, I know it sure favors a young bachelor like me.
I Don’t Date Feminists
Now, pay attention to this brother;
…that I mingle with feminists as friends and FWB doesn’t mean I date them.
I don’t enter committed relationships with feminists.
Because we’re not compatible.
We’ve different views in things when it comes to relationship.
For instance, I expect a girl I call my girlfriend to know that I’ve the final say in any major decisions in the relationship. And she ought to respect most of those decisions. Also, she shouldn’t expect me to go cook when she’s around and is fit enough to cook.
And I know that is my role to take care of her emotional needs. It’s my duty to make sure she’s happy in the relationship. And if ever she’s gets bored of the relationship, I’m the one to blamed. Also, I cannot be around and allow her do strenuous physical work which as a man, I should take care of.
But most feminists don’t have this same views in a relationship. They believe that they shouldn’t be gender roles in relationship.
So, if I enter a committed relationship with a feminist, there would be a lot of clashes of frames.
Because we don’t see things the same way.
Why Most Relationships Fail
Like I discussed in the post titled, “Don’t Rush Into Committed Relationships With any Girl,” the major reasons relationships fail is because men usually get blinded by emotions and rush into relationships with women who are not compatible with them.
This is the reason a guy who wants a sexual relationship will enter a relationship with a girl who strictly believes in no-sex before marriage tradition. That relationship is definitely not going to work.
Don’t avoid a girl just because she’s a feminist. She could still be a beneficial female friend to you or friends with benefits. But I’ll never advise a brother to enter a committed relationship with a feminist.
Don’t worry, they don’t mind. Are they not the ones who usually say that they don’t need a man to be complete? Or that their career is more important than being in a relationship with any man? So, they’re fine with you not wanting to commit to them in a relationship.
Important Note: You should avoid broke feminists. Those ones will allow you to do all the spending and still be dragging equality with you in the relationship. Therefore, Avoid them!
See you Next Time Bro,
About the Author: Gerald Dike
Gerald Dike is the founder of Relationship Strategies For Men. He has helped thousands of men have better interactions and healthy relationships with women of their dreams. He is also an entrepreneur in one of the biggest countries in Africa.
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