Relationship Strategies I learned from Women
Brothers, the thing is that I learnt some vital relationship strategies I apply now from women.
What an irony, right? Lol!
Let’s have a look at some of these relationship strategies I learnt from women.
- MOVING FAST
When a lady likes you, she starts giving you green lights–showing she’s interested in you. That is, you see her wanting to spend more time with you; laughing at your slightest jokes; touching you implicitly;wanting to invest in you–maybe offering to cook for you or asking you to come eat hers.
However, if you waste time and don’t capitalize on those signals, she withdraws and stop doing all that. She might even start acting as if you two are quarreling.
In other words, when a girl shows a guy she’s interested in him and the guy doesn’t respond positively… she drops the guy and moves on. She won’t wait for the guy forever, trying to convince him. Instead she replaces him.
Immediately I found out this is how ladies’ rolled… I emulated this strategy sharply.
Hence, whenever I like a lady, I show her I’m interested in her immediately. But if she doesn’t respond to that positively, I cut off my attention from her and replace her at once. I won’t stay behind trying to convince or beg her to like me.
2) KEEPING OPTIONS OPEN
When a girl is in a relationship, she still flirts and gives her contact details to some men who are wooing her.
Now, a girl doesn’t see that as cheating; rather they call it: “Keeping their options open.”
So, I learnt that one too. That’s the reason I also flirt and ask other girls for their contacts while I’m in a relationship too.
I also wish to keep my options open. What’s good for the goose is also good for the gander.
3) MOVING ON FROM A BREAKUP EASILY
50% of guys want to go back to their exes. But if you look closely, you’ll notice that most of their exes don’t want to come back to them.
Why is this so?
Well, an average woman has more options of mates than an average man.
Attracting men is quite easier. All a woman needs to do is to look good and sexy and scores of men start asking her out.
On the other hand, a man attracting a woman of his taste is not that easy. It has a lot of nuances.
Hence, after a breakup, it’s easier for a girl to move on to a bigger fish, while the guy is still getting frustrated by new girls he wants.
And maybe, the guy finally settles for less–by dating a girl below his normal standard.
So, most guys after the frustration, starts missing and wanting their ex back.
Once I realized this, I made a personal decision to master how to attract to myself women of my standard anytime I want them.
Right now, I’ve so many options of ladies, that going back to my exes rarely crosses my mind. I’m like forward ever.
And this I learned from girls too.
Hence, it’s very funny to me when ladies usually tackle me when I reveal these same strategies to men.
They say it’s not right–that’s not how it supposed to be. But if you observe closely, they’re doing the exact same thingy.
That’s why I always tell men:
Pay less attention to what ladies say, instead pay close attention to what they do and quit taking relationship advice from them
Conclusion on Relationship Strategies I learned from Women
So, whenever you’re feeling guilty to cut all contact from that girl who rejected your advances; remember she would have done the same if it was her.
If you think flirting with other girls while being in a relationship is cheating, ask yourself how those guys who are calling your girl got her number.
And if you still want your ex back, ask yourself why doesn’t she want you back.
As you ponder over these things, I wish you an amazing day ahead.
About the Author: Gerald Dike
Gerald Dike is the founder of Relationship Strategies For Men. He has helped thousands of men have better interactions and healthy relationships with women of their dreams. He is also an entrepreneur in one of the biggest countries in Africa.
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